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Reflecting New Year Post

Each year I like to sit down and write a blog post at the end of the year to reflect on my year in my business & in my personal life.

You can find the 2018 reflection here. In my 2019 reflection, I talked about having to accept that I was going to be a bad business owner. As much as I wanted 2019 to be a year of thriving, it needed to be a year of surviving instead. I looked forward to 2020 because the shift that I was making in my career was going to allow me more flexibility to make my business a priority again and to feel like a business owner again. I remember typing that blog post and feeling like I was finally breathing fresh air again.

… And then 2020 happened. HAHA.

As an educator, 2020 has been a wild ride. I don’t have to remind you of that because we are all existing in it. However, 2020 was the year that I did finally feel like a business owner again. I didn’t teach during the summer, so I launched my Etsy shop in July. In August, I thought it would be fun to make custom stickers. By the end of the month, I launched a handful of custom stickers. I had a personal TikTok that I made about them go semi-viral and be seen by 75,000+. I cried a lot of happy tears. I worked all day, but spent lunch, evenings & weekends getting out sticker orders as quickly as possible across the United States. It was the highlight of 2020 as far as my business is concerned.

Photo of Arlena with hands covering mouth shocked while wearing shipping labels like a scarf
This photo was taken the morning I woke up to enough orders to wear the shipping labels like a scarf… it felt like a business milestone! Hahaha.

So, what about my personal life?

In the beginning of the year, we moved Adam across the country for the military. I decided to stay in Kansas to teach since he would only be in that location for roughly a year & a half. I went to visit him while the students were gone for Spring Break. The week that I was there visiting was when Coronavirus was beginning to really unfold nationwide in the United States. I remember the NBA made their announcement and then I received an email that the university I teach at would be extending Spring Break for a week. A few days later, we learned that we were moving to online learning temporarily… and then permanently. When I transitioned to teaching online, I went to quarantine with my parents in Georgia for six weeks. I haven’t been able to spend that much time with them in years, so it was the silver lining of the situation.

At the end of July, Adam asked me to marry him.

That’s obviously the highlight of the year personally. You all sent us so much love via Instagram comments & DMs! We had 48-hours together as fiancés before it was back to long-distance again. In August, the semester began and that consumed the majority of my time.

Photo of Arlena (owner of Bossy Brushstrokes) engagement ring
This is my beautiful engagement ring. We worked with a local jeweler in Maryland to custom design it. I still am in awe every time I look at my left hand!

In October, my very best friend married the love of her life.

One of the highlights of 2019 was getting to be there for her engagement, so I love that I get to share that this year, despite all else, she was still able to have the most beautiful wedding day. I was her Maid-of-Honor (...duh) and got to stand by her side as she married the love of her life. I struggled holding it together for my speech (which was probably way too long… oops), but was so happy to be able to celebrate their marriage with all of their loved ones.

Photo of Kelly & Arlena (owner of Bossy Brushstrokes) walking towards Kelly's wedding arch as Arlena holds her veil
She was the most beautiful bride. It was such an amazing weekend!

So, what’s happening in 2021?

I have a few exciting announcements that I’m going to keep a secret for a little bit longer… hehehe. Don’t worry- I’ll make a blog post when I do announce them. One of the exciting things to look forward to is that in May of 2021, Adam and I will be getting married. I cannot wait to share a blog post recapping the special day & all of our amazing vendors.

Thank you!

Seriously… from the bottom of my heart… THANK YOU! Thank you for supporting my business whether it is with a like on social media or a purchase from my online store here or a purchase on my Etsy shop. Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post and for excitedly looking forward to what 2021 holds for me personally and for Bossy Brushstrokes. Until next time, stay bossy y’all.

XOXO Bossy Brushstrokes
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Reflecting.

It’s the last day of 2018, which means it is time for all of the cheesy things that we all do as the New Year approaches. I started to write a caption for the video I am posting today and I thought that it should really be a blog post instead (because y’all know that I love to ramble in my captions). As I reflect on the last 365 days and the year of 2018, I am in absolute disbelief. I’ve never been big on “resolutions” but I’m big on goals any time of year. When I bring in a new year, I use it as my time to think about my goals for the coming year and reflect on the goals that I set for the year that is ending.

In my personal life, 2018 was a year that I had been glorifying in my mind for years because I was finally going to be done with school and be what I referred to as “a real adult.” However, 2018 was SO much more than that. I did finish school and obtain my Masters of Business Administration. But, I also did a few other really big things. I got to add two new countries in a new continent to my “Been There” list. I moved halfway across the country to the Midwest where my boyfriend and I ditched long-distance and moved in together.

Pause. Before I can go any further into my personal life, I have to talk about my “Bossy Brushstrokes” life. One of my 2018 goals was to grow Bossy Brushstrokes, but I didn’t really have a plan for what that meant. A year ago today, I had less than 400 followers on Instagram. As of today, there are 12,700+ of you guys who follow along with me. WHAT?! In January, I launched my website/blog. In February, I launched my online shop. In April, I officially became an LLC. I can sit here and tell you with 100% honesty that I never saw any of those things coming. I didn’t have any plans and I pretty much just kept winging it and now we are here. I never thought of myself as an entrepreneur. I never saw myself as a business owner. To be honest, none of my decisions were really intentional. I was just sharing what I was making on my iPad on Instagram and then I found a community. So, then I just wanted to share how I did things and then I just wanted to help inspire and empower others to do the same and then I found myself having built a community of my own within that community that I loved. I found myself in a position to add value to the world in my own way. I found myself in a position to connect and help others who needed the push to follow their own journey. I found myself receiving messages from people around the world thanking me for the kind words and telling me how I inspired them. I found my purpose. I know that sounds really dramatic, but it is so true.

Back to my personal life. When people asked me what I wanted to do after I got my Masters, I always responded that I wanted to work full-time and I wanted to stay in the marketing/public relations realm. I didn’t have a specific vision. I knew that I wanted to be happy and I wanted to be working for something that I believed in. I remember seeing the job posting for my current position and it was like everything clicked. For those who don’t know, I accepted a position at an Entrepreneurship Center at a University. *angels sing* Yep. YEP. I never would’ve discovered my purpose without Bossy Brushstrokes and now I get to live my life every day playing my role in inspiring and empowering the next generation of entrepreneurs. That’s pretty cool, right?

One of the big goals of mine that developed halfway through the year was that I wanted to speak about my experience so far with Bossy Brushstrokes. I wanted to get to do what I do on social media, except in real life. In the month of November, I got to do that. I got to speak to a Women in Business group on a panel of female entrepreneurs. I also got to speak as one of four on a Young Entrepreneurs panel. I got to represent for those of us who aren’t “full-time entrepreneurs” and talk about the passion that I have for my side-hustle and how that translates to how I work in my actual job.

2018 was an amazing year that held more than I could have imagined a year ago today. 2019 will come with challenges of it’s own, but I’m excited to bring in a new year and set goals for myself and my business intentionally this time around. Because of the natural progression of things and what has been accomplished, I can’t wait to see what I can accomplish in a year being intentional and having a better idea of the direction I’d like to go and what I want to do with my business. I’ll still be winging it though.. just winging it with some direction. Don’t worry.

Anyway, I’m saying all of this to let you in on a bit of my life AND because I couldn’t have done it without you. Thank you for taking the time to read this and for supporting Bossy Brushstrokes and what it has become. I love you all so much and am so thankful to get to have the platform I do. I am so thankful for the friendships I have made and the messages I get to exchange. Here’s to 2019.

Until next time, stay bossy y’all.

** If you’re interested in the mockup that I used for the featured photo of this blog, you can find it in this set on TheHungryJPEG. I LOVE this set and I’ll talk about it more on my Instagram soon. The link is an affiliate link. If you purchase using my link, I do make a small commission at no extra cost to you. XOXO. **

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